Do you want me to tell you the truth or we stay bests friends?
Not just that lies are supposed to be good, some people even suggest others lie to their partners.
In the article:
»6 Lies That Are Okay To Tell in a Relationship«
the author lists six lies that are allowed to tell her partner. (These are tips from woman to women, we can just guess what would this kind of advice sound from man to men. :))
1. »Making them feel better over something insignificant.«
Tell them they look good even if they don’t.
2. »Not telling them every time someone flirted with you.«
To »protect« them from being hurt with the truth that others see you desirable.
3. »Appreciating a bad gift.«
Tell them that you like the gift when you don’t.
4. »Being nice about one-off situations.«
You say that you are having fun with his friends when you are very bored.
5. »Hiding something in the beginning.«
The author is a recovered drug addict, and not happy with advertising it publicly.
6. »Sexting them that you’re wearing something sexy when you’re…not. Before my partner and I lived together or now whenever we have to be apart, we occasionally sext. I’d say something like, “I’m wearing that red number you like so much,” when I’d actually be wearing a t-shirt stained with the spaghetti I’d eaten for dinner.«
One of the visitors from other planets says that if her partner lies as she does, then they don’t live in the partnership, but each one in his false world lying together and creating a common false partnership.
Lying is primitive, harmful, and destructive.
Lying is an experience we can only get in unawakened societies. To manipulate the truth is possible only in retarded and personally undeveloped societies because of the limited awareness and insight into the factual state of the matters. Light beings, for example, can see all of your life in minutes, and see by the color of your light body if you are lying or telling the truth. They can also check your statements by taking a look directly into your past and comparing your words with real events. Lying and the inability to detect liars is only possible in primitive societies in which are living unawakened people with limited abilities.
In such societies, lying, manipulating, and misdirections are normal, wished for, and even commanded. They even write books with a common title “How to lie, and get away with it.” 🙂
This is a part of the chapter from the book on harmful behaviors which I will publish in the future:
“3. Lying, fabricating, setting up, and faking ignorance.
Violence is primarily and often physical, while lying is more mental and emotional. An awakening person is developing and unawakened is also “developing” or more precisely, decaying. Lying is the characteristic of a more “evolved” unawakened who is beside or instead of violence using his mind as the tool for manipulation, harming, and destructing. Lying is beside manipulation for selfish interests often an expression of being afraid of the truth. The Truth of the Good is so awful for a liar that he chooses the lie of the Bad as something better.
Lying, fabricating, setting up, and faking ignorance is creating a false world for the control, misdirection, and abuse of others. In the false world, a liar is the Master as he is the only one who knows what is true and whatnot. Others are lost in his world being at his disposal to manipulate and abuse them. Liar is keeping them prisoners in his false world which he fabricated especially for them. He is not able to have true relations in the truth of equality, because he is afraid of them and the truth, he created a false world in which he is the Boss. Only in this twisted world, and in his one-sided false relation he feels good and can deal with others. Now, he has all the power, and being omnipotent he thinks he can use them as he wants.
Everything that exists is real. The Existence is real and is not false. A lie is an attempt to pervert the Truth of Existence into something that is not. A lie is a statement that is not in accordance with the fact. It can be in the positive or in the negative form. Something happened, or didn’t, there, and not here, but a liar claims it happened there or/and here.
Lying is a fear of the truth. A liar is afraid and ashamed of himself, that’s why he lies to look better. At least that is what he thinks, because, with lying, things only get worse, doing two bad things. He confirms the first bad thing – fear and shame because he is trying to hide them, but by hiding them he just exposes and emphasizes them. With lying he also emphasizes the second bad thing, that is his feeling of being worthless. The truth is an obstacle for him to become or/and get something, so he tries to avoid it, hide it, and replace it with other, fabricated and false ones, but for him a better version of the false “reality”. Lying is always behind selfish interest, and a liar always calculates to gain concrete profit. Material or immaterial, money or attention. Most people lie occasionally so there are very few without an honest bone in their body. 🙂
Lying is also a tool for structuring relationships between more and less worthy, Important and Poor ones. He who thinks that is more worthy, lies and keeps the Good of the Truth for himself, while he hands over the Bad of the Lie to others, and less worthy. He underestimates and devalues him as unworthy to know the truth. By lying to him, he destroys a chance to be equal and showing intention to keep manipulating him.
Some divides lie to good and bad ones. 🙂 They call the good lies “white” lies, and they even recommend them as less harmful or harmless. They prefer a good lie over a bad truth.
Exaggerating is another toy that unawakened use for playing, twisting, and perverting the truth. Sometimes they lie in silence. When they should say something, they don’t.
A lie is not necessary connected to the real event. The only connection is often just a selfish interest. With conscious and intentional repeating, a lie becomes a new truth, even more, acceptable than the real one. That can also be used as a defense mechanism. A liar doesn’t like the original which is spoiling his wished and ideal image of the world and/or his self-image so he constructs and uses another one.
A liar can prepare his lie at home or construct one at the spot. Sometimes somebody lies just because the words he said to go together well. Even though they don’t go well with the truth. He uses them to “improve” and “beautify” the reality he doesn’t like.
Let us be fair and separate the imagination from lying. Imaginating is an artistic act, and only for the fun of it. Jokes, funny stories, and benevolent pranks. We have to clearly state that we are telling the joke, because a person who hears it, can think that is true. Before you part with him, tell him that you were joking because, after that, a joke turns into a lie.
False identification and creation of false profiles are a special form of personality lying where a person creates a false persona to try to become or/and get what the real one can’t.
Constructing is creating and sharing more or less complete and false stories about a person or a group. The author wants to create a special image about the hero of the story, usually to discredit, sabotage, and eliminate him. With the invented story, there are also possible staged events with prostitutes and hidden photographs. In movies, they jump into the room at the right moment to get the heat of the action on camera. Staged events with photo proofs can be used for extortion as the popular form of unawakened “business communication”. 🙂
Setting up is lying in the name of the other: “I know that he didn’t say that, but I am telling around that he did because I want to harm him, while I will benefit from it.” False witnessing is another perverted monster in the sack of lies. Well-paid liar claims that he saw everything they wanted him to see swearing on his naked eyes.
When intentionally lying, liars sometimes use two crossed fingers behind their backs or in their pockets. They use lying fingers to excuse their actions and to keep their “dignity” saying: “Yes, I lie, but I am at least honest to myself.” 🙂
Unawakened often lie to not hurt others, at least so they say. Lying “protectingly” they harm both of them as they lie to both of them. Instead of telling the truth and clear the relationship, they rather insist on living in a lie, and even complaining that nobody understands them. “Do you want me to tell you the truth or we stay the best friends?” 🙂
Faking ignorance is another form of lying to oneself and others. A person knows that something is important but faking as it isn’t. To gain a selfish interest, she is keeping the truth at the proper distance until the operation is finished. The money will silence the bad conscience.
All forms of lying are very demanding, including the fast ones. With lying, a liar leaves the reality of the truth and passes over to the false world of lies. He has to have a very good memory to remember what he said to who. He also has to keep both versions in his memory, the true and the false ones. He must also watch for the body language signs which can show that he is lying. At any time, he has to have prepared explanations or/and a new lie, in any case, if he is caught. As they say, a lie has short legs, so the truth will eventually catch it.
If you have lied under the influence of your partial personalities to others use the method Choose again. When you realize that you have just lied, tell the person what really happened. You can say that your previous statement wasn’t correct and that you will tell her the truth now. If anybody lies to you, and you know it, you can listen to him, and say nothing. That will cause a split in your relationship because he clearly and directly told you that he doesn’t be with you in the truth. With lying, he is putting you in the lie. He moved you from the field of the truth into the field of the lie. With that, he shows you what he thinks about you showing you your place under him. You can benefit him, and nicely tell him that you know the truth suggesting him to tell again, this time the truth. You can tell him that you want to have a real relationship with him, and the truth is very important for that. Calm him telling him that nothing bad will happen to him because of the truth and that you will accept it with full understanding. You can also tell him an example of your experiences when you act similar to telling the truth after the initial lie and have developed a new and useful habit of being truthful and telling the truth. From that event, you speak only the truth, and nothing bad has happened to you since then. Quite contrary, the truth is completely good.
The karmicons enforced to us fear, and all other harmful behaviors including lying. That is Satan’s language, the language of Evil. Pure Awareness is completely transparent and pure, there are no gray or dark zones in It. Everything is pure, clear, and transparent. From the transparency and clarity of Pure Awareness comes our Truthfulness as awakened ones are speaking the truth.
The awakened person speaks the truth, only the truth, and nothing but the truth. You don’t have to tell everything to everybody, keep your private things for you. Everything you say to others has to be the truth. That is the only way to have sincere relationships with them. Everything you say has to match the real events and facts, otherwise, you will continue to live in the mutual delusion of lies, twisted perversions, guesses, and assumptions.”
Trump was and still is the President of the Liars
You probably know that The Washington Post had carefully monitored Trump’s public statements. They figured out that he said 30.573 lies or 21 lies a day during his presidency.
Similarly important question to “Why god allows Evil?” is the question “Why the politicians lie so much?” 🙂 It is much easier to answer the second question, although the answer to both is in fact the same.
Political twisting, constructing and fogging, or spinning the facts is “normal” political communication. Politics and political parties use PR (Public Relation) agencies with so-called spin doctors who twist and pervert facts, mix them with lies, and even fabricate complete lies to create the image of honest politicians. They lie to make politicians look honest. 🙂 They present them as good folks and heroes who work hard for the common benefit which is in fact totally opposite to what they really and selfishly do. These agencies want the public to see and accept their clients as they wish. They use lies to cover nasty truths about them, creating false images, and public opinion for the selfish benefits of politicians. They redirect public attention from important themes for the public and common good to the most important theme in the state as it is the political image of selfish, corrupted, and narcissistic politicians.
The statement “no comment” is one of the most often said political lies.
It is important that we are true and that we speak the truth.
The basic premise of communication is that it is truthful. You can be really true only if you are Being of Pure Awareness in which there is no Evil, lies, and no other harmful substances and parts. Until you are unawakened, and you still don’t know who you really are, you lie to yourself about your true identity as you think that you are somebody that you in fact are not. A friend said that since he caught himself lying, he doesn’t believe anyone else. 🙂
Read more about why is so important to be truthful and to speak the truth in my article The truth matters! on:
You can have truthful, friendly, and loving relationships only if you are truthful and speak the truth. If one or both partners lie, that is not a true relationship, but just a cheat and lie house in which are both afraid if and when they will be caught as liars, preparing their defense with some more lies.
Right after our start on Earth, we will use special technology for watching into the past. We will publicly present all liars and their lies, starting with world leaders, state presidents, and government premiers. Until then, start awakening and releasing partial personalities and their harmful behaviors as lying. Use my exercises for awakening which will help you to easily get rid of all the personality pests and their nasty habits. When you realize that you are lying or you just have lies, start over and tell yourself and/or others the truth, calmly and without excusing, and feeling bad, sinful, and guilty. Write the harmful event in your diary for awakening, and decide that you won’t lie anymore. You can use a statement: “I speak the truth, to all, always and everywhere.”
Keep the private things for yourself, what you say to others should be the truth. I wish you to awaken and live in the Truth. Truthful life is much more calm, relaxed, and nice. I tell you that you will be amazed and very happy with the new and true you and your new life.
All the best to all.
Read more about the harms of lying and the benefits of being truthful in my book series Letters to Palkies Messages to my friends on another planet. You can get Book 1 and 2, and my other books on Amazon:
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